Money Thoughts

The place where I get to just blab about what I believe to be true about money. Most of the time postings will be about “hot” financial news of the day and the effects I believe it will have on our children’s future.

Here is a though that came to mind this weekend. Thought it was worth publishing for all the world to ponder.

“EVERY act of giving results in receiving something. It might not be exactly what you expect, but you always get back in one form or another whether it be self gratification, or and actual physical item. Also, the more effort you put into you giving, the bigger the item in which you will receive.”

This is a law that goes for everything I’ve ever observed. I am sure it’s not something new, but just not taught enough.

If you want a better life, for instance, put more effort into living. If you want a better job, put more effort into looking. etc..etc..

If you like to learn while you read, but not be bored with academic textbook style reading, I suggest a book called “The One Minute Entrepreneur” by Ken Blanchard and Don Hutson. It’s a story with a lot of great lessons along the way. At the end of each chapter, the main points learned by the characters are highlighted. With so many great pointers about being a successful entreprenuer, and many quotes from some of the greatest business teachers, this was a book that I recommend for anyone who has their own business or would like to start one.

Remember, many times its the limitations of your “job” that will keep you poor. Only you can make the decision to do more with your life.

So my wife got me a really good book for my birthday and I came across a VERY enlightening comment this morning while reading it

“Happiness is a result of what you believe and what you do, not a result of what happens to you.”

If you come to really understand and study what this means to you in your life, you will see that your happiness depends 100% on you, and nothing else. If you are not happy in your life, start believing differently and doing things differently, and happiness can be yours.  Like the famous Apple Tag line says:

“Think Different”

When stocks go down, oil goes up. When  stock go down BIG, oil really goes up! Just like a seesaw there are so many things that adjust when other things move. It is said that money does not just go away and disappear, it just finds a better place to move. Gold and oil spiked today due to the drop in the stock market getting news of unemployment and foreclosure numbers looking real sad. So money moved out of the market and into speculative oil. The move of this money was so large that the jump in oil was $10 barrel, and gold moved up $24 and ounce. I heard a story that hedge fund managers are taking advantage of a loophole in buying oil that is accelerating the upswing in price. Smart investors will now see that there is a HUGE imbalance in the supply and demand of oil that should make a large swing happen in the other direction to bring oil prices down. With production in the US slowing and airline companies slashing the amount of flights they normally have in the air, we’ll see the demand for oil dropping quickly. Oil prices are just way to overinflated to sustain its current level and the pendulum is beginning to make its turn and will gain the momentum it needs to get prices back in line. If you educate yourself in understanding how to make money when a market goes down, now is the time to initiate the trades for oil prices to retreat and make you profitable.

Too bad we couldn’t hedge our gas prices earlier. If we could have, I know my wife and I would have bought $2000 worth of gas in January. We knew prices were gonna continue to rise then, but we didn’t have a way to do it. I heard some states have ways to do it, maybe California should look into it.

There are a lot of business books out there that talk about how large companies neglect to adapt while the world that made them big changes around them. Change in our world is inevitable, and it’s up to people to adapt to it to survive. I am always amazed at how little companies rapidly get large because of their ability to change with the world around them. I highly recommend anyone thinking about entrepreneurship to read the book “If it ain’t broke, break it!”.

This week I am making a change in my life that some people would think I was crazy to do. In fact, I know MOST people would think it “unwise”. The fact of the matter is that the world is changing around me and I have been doing nothing but watching and resisting. Much like the big companies who fail to make necessary changes with their customers needs and end up bankrupt, that is where I felt I was headed. This pudgandplum blog was built to help me understand the world of blogging better and to help me change and grow a little more with technology. The next step for me has come to now focus harder on the website portion. I have been in companies that done changes that have negatively affected the lives of those around them. I see a storm ahead for the company I work for and count my blessings that there are clear warning signs that give me just enough time to protect myself and get out of the way of the turmoil.

I believe that the news we see and hear everyday are also giving warning signs of the years to come. There is a great possibility that our nation will have very hard times ahead economically, and people are ignoring the warnings. It’s like being told you’re standing in a building that will fall in an hour and even though you can see and hear the cracks forming in the walls, you stay to say that it’s not your problem, someone else better stop it from collapsing because your not leaving for safety because it’s not convenient right now. In the end, you will fall with the building around you. At that point you can try to blame everyone around you, but the fact will remain you ignored the warning.

If you are in a job that has bosses above you who have the ability to lay you off, you need to protect yourself. Find a second source of income that can sustain you if you lose your job. Don’t be foolish to think that you are indispensable. Everyone can be replaced, yes, everyone…  As much as people think they are too precious, they’re not. If the company gets sold or closes it’s doors, it then doesn’t really matter how valuable you “thought” you were.

Look at what’s going on around you. See change for what it is. Ask yourself how can you make lives easier for people, or is there a problem you are noticing that a product you create could make it easier for others in their everyday lives? Look at your company from the inside out and ask yourself what could be done better, or what is the company missing that you could do on your own? Open your eyes, then open your mind.

I remember reading somewhere that everyone has a million dollar idea, but most will never know it, or have the guts to implement it. Starting today, I will start working hard on what I think is my million dollar idea. Will you start on yours?

This is an odd sign. Big news today is that the dollar has gained some strength. Typically, this usually means that Gold prices should start to drop hard. For today this is not the case. What could this mean? My opinion is that commodities in general have a ton of momentum, so much so that even the standard norms which should have a affect on bringing prices down can stop the upswing in price. What this also means is that inflation trends have started gaining a lot of upward momentum and it will take a lot more work to slow it down.

As much as I like Gold and Silver as investments, knowing what outside forces have an affect on the price but are not holding to the trend greatly concerns me. Hopefully it just means that someone out there (with a lot of money) is buying while the going is good (meaning that the prices are still cheap) and that’s causing the increase. I like seeing Gold prices increase, but only because I have most of my investment in it. I don’t like what drives the prices of Gold though, because it means that our nations dollar is weakening and so is our economy overall.

In the end, all any of us can do is take advantage of what we hope is another cycle for any investment that might be at t low point. GREAT real estate deals are all over the place now. Learn to negotiate and buy property at great prices, and you’ll be able to stay ahead of the economic problems most Americans are facing today.

Have a great Memorial Day weekend, and take time to learn about what’s going on around you!

Have you heard about the radio stations that have free gas offers here and there throughout the US? I listened to a lady say she went at 2am in the morning to wait for 10 gallons of free gas. She will wait for about 10 hours in her car to get her free gas. Is it really that worth it? KNX would have done better to do a promo show that gave $40 gas gift cards in my opinion, but that’s probably why they don’t ask me.

Gas prices will still continue to rise at least for the next few days, if not weeks. I gotta think that there has to be better ways for Americans to beat this problem. Gas is so high right now that even food is being used to create fuels and doing a double whammy on all of us with regards to food prices.

I saw that Gold and Silver prices are also once again taking off this week. Our government broadcasted a shortage on gas supplies and President Bush’s recent trip to Saudi Arabia to try to bring the price of oil down was unsuccessful. It at least shows that he is trying to address the issue, but most analyst knew it wouldn’t help. The fact of the matter is that we need address our dying dollar. That is the core problem to everything we experience. Address the dollar issue, our other problems will fix themselves. It may take a few years for the ship to turn, but we need to start the turn.

The same goes with our lives. If we are living paycheck to paycheck, we need to start a turn to head in a different direction. It may take a bit for the affects to be seen, but know it will be well worth it. I think of it like dieting. It takes a lot of suffering in the beginning, but working the plan will help to get you back on track and the result will be well worth it.

It seems that the heat is on it’s way. Yesterday, here in California, it felt like mid-summer already. Temperatures have been about 100 degrees and moods seem to be flaring in correlation with the heat. Add a sprinkle of “high price stress” on top of it all, and you now have a population that is in need of anger management classes.

A new report today says that wholesale inflation rose very slowly, slower than expect. (yeah right) The government tweaked the numbers so bad, it wasn’t even worth really publishing.

Gold is back on the rise, but oil will soon peak and interest rates will have to go back up. This means that Gold may not maintain the strong price rise, but I am thinking it won’t go much lower all in all and a slow “continuous” rise is probable for the long term.

Inflation will be the biggest enemy of everyone’s wallet. (beside the cooling cost to beat the heat) BUT all in all, there is always a golden shining light at the end of the tunnel. Real estate prices continue to plummet, and this gives many opportunities for those who know how to play it.

Read up on things that gained a lot of popularity during depressions or recessions, and there is a lot of opportunity to get ahead. Think about it….

This week I had eye surgery done to remove some scar tissue that started to cover my pupil. One of the rules I had to follow was that I could not eat anything after midnight until the surgery was over. My surgery ended at about 2pm, so needless to say I was starving, but nauseous from the surgery and having a patch on my eye. At this point I was amazed at how easy we live our lives here in the US. When we are hungry, we eat. At anytime, we can go and get food practically anywhere. There are hundreds of thousands of people in Burma and China who are starving and can’t get to food right now due to natural disasters. Of course, there are those in other areas who never have food or clean water at their disposal either. So here I am complaining about feeling a little sick, and a sense of guilt overwhelms me. I guess I also end up getting a little worried about what I would do if I couldn’t afford to eat or had access to food. Scary.

With that being said, I have no words of wisdom other than to say, maybe each of us should really be aware and thankful of the blessings we have. (and it might not hurt to prepare in case we have not)

This is a good article on how any positive news about our economy could be just a mirage.

http://biz.yahoo.com/ap/080510/economic_mirage.html

I’ve been on a business sales trip again this past week. This time to Houston and drove out for a day to Austin. While meeting with clients, one thing I noticed was that all the business owners had other marketable skills that equaled, if not exceeded their current business, in other industries. It blew me away to see all of these VERY successful  entrepreneurs working on the side in things that were (in some cases) totally unrelated to their primary “bread and butter” businesses. On most occassions, these side ventures were definitely multi-million dollar ideas if marketed right.

The spirit of entrepreneurship is in their blood. It keeps them looking for opportunities to enhance their business, and sometimes better “new” ideas pop-up instead that seem logical to pursue. Many people know of the Post-it creator who was trying to create the ultimate adhesive and instead ended up marketing a super weak sticky stuff that makes itself removable on paper. Brilliant!

The lesson we all need to learn from this is that we all need to open our eyes and diversify our skills and knowledge better to create opportunity for ourselves. Never settle and be comfortable where you are or opportunity will pass you by. Think about what other things you have skills or interests in that could change the world completely for the better. If you don’t move on it first, someone else will.

A few days ago a new rally began for the stock market as our government reported that our economy actually grew by 0.6%, which was higher than expected. This has got to be one of the most common deceptions our government does to the american people to give us a false confidence about our nations true economic status. The report is a complete miscalculation since they didn’t seem to input the proper rate inflation. They say that the inflation rate entered to calculate the growth was not readjusted to the current inflation we as americans are really witnessing. Since gas prices and groceries have quickly become a hard to afford, it’s obvious to everyone that we are spending more for everyday living. There was a yahoo finance article that did a true estimate that stated we have actually taken a huge loss with regards to our economic growth and that the real estimates won’t be calculated till a week or so. The big questions is….will we see this new calculation?Our dollar has strengthened because of this news even though interest rates were recently cut. This has made the price of cold drop considerably, even though there are still many elements that should hold the price of gold steady or make it increase. I still hold firm that Gold will reach $1100 an ounce by the end of the year. We should see days ahead where Gold skyrockets in a vertical way.Keep an eye on the big news that come out daily. Unemployment, real estate, inflation,  and oil prices. Any negative news from these areas will push Gold back to where it balances out to support those who have holdings in this precious metal.

Here is a story that I’ve heard a few times throughout my life. It’s always been a constant reminder to me of what kinds of obstacles are put in our way that stop us short of accomplishing great things when we are so close. There have been so many times I’ve quit in my life where others have said I was justified and my actions understandable. Fooling myself for every “non-accomplishment” of telling myself that I did the right thing, when in my heart I knew I could have done more, or done better, but instead chose the easy way out…to quit.

Keep Your Goals In Sight

When she looked ahead, Florence Chadwick saw nothing but a solid wall of fog. Her body was numb. She had been swimming for nearly sixteen hours. Already she was the first woman to swim the English Channel in both directions. Now, at age 34, her goal was to become the first woman to swim from Catalina Island to the California coast. On that Fourth of July morning in 1952, the sea was like an ice bath and the fog was so dense she could hardly see her support boats. Sharks cruised toward her lone figure, only to be driven away by rifle shots. Against the frigid grip of the sea, she struggled on – hour after hour – while millions watched on national television. Alongside Florence in one of the boats, her mother and her trainer offered encouragement. They told her it wasn’t much further. But all she could see was fog. They urged her not to quit. She never had . . . until then. With only a half mile to go, she asked to be pulled out. Still thawing her chilled body several hours later, she told a reporter, “Look, I’m not excusing myself, but if I could have seen land I might have made it.” It was not fatigue or even the cold water that defeated her. It was the fog. She was unable to see her goal. Two months later, she tried again. This time, despite the same dense fog, she swam with her faith intact and her goal clearly pictured in her mind. She knew that somewhere behind the fog was land and this time she made it! Florence Chadwick became the first woman to swim the Catalina Channel, eclipsing the men’s record by two hours! Even when you can’t see your goal with your eyes, you can always picture it in your mind. Let that be the strength to take you where you want to go!

Here it comes….The lecture on what to do with your money when you get a gift. Personally, I have a strong belief that there is a very specific breakdown on how you should take care of income. Whether the income comes from your paychecks or from a free rebate from the government, here is how income should be broken down.

1. Give at least 10% to tithing or if you don’t go to church, donate it to a worthy charity. For Christians, this type of action shows God how strong your faith is toward him. God promises blessings back 10 fold for being faithful in your giving. For non-believers, this act of giving us called the “Law of Reciprocity”. A principle of what goes around, comes around. Try it…See what happens!

2. Give yourself 10% to treat yourself. This is the principle of what the rich call “Paying yourself first”. What is left after the Giving and the Paying yourself then becomes more flexible.

3. Put 10% to long term savings. This is your retirement fund.

4. Put 20% toward, something you can invest in and take risks worth. I recommend breaking this down into half. put half of it into account to spend on the risky investment and the other half on educating yourself. Take seminars or buy books and tapes on the subject you want to invest in. This will help to minimize your risk.

5. Lastly, you should be left with the last 50% of the money you want to break down. Hopefully its enough to now pay bills with and survive on for everyday expenses. If it’s not, you have 2 big decisions to make. First, make more money. Second cut the regular expenses you have down so you can do 50% of your income to survive on.

This message above is a difficult thing to do for most people, but if its a habit created early by your kids, 2 great things happen. First, they will have secured their future and those of your future generations, and second, they will have learned to live within their means and be smart with their money.

So take that free rebate and show them how you and the family will break it down to where it makes sense!

Is there a refund for you?  Our accountant informed us we’re getting a refund this year. When we originally went for our tax appointment she thought we would end up paying about $6,000, but after she received all the additional paperwork she needed and was able to input all the final numbers into the computer the results changed dramatically.

Funny thing is this. My wife and I set a goal to go to Japan this year on the condition that accomplish making a certain “large”  amount of funds in additional to our regular incomes from our jobs by the end of May. Well..our tax returns covered over 90% of that goal. We’ve been praying on it and working on ideas to accomplish this and it seems that it’s working itself out. Now I am not saying that just because we prayed and set our sites on a goal that God dropped this money in our lap. We’ve been working at what we thought could be ways of accomplishing the goal. I truly believe that the combination of faith and action is what makes special “unexpected” blessings appear.

If you are a person who believes in Jesus, here are some things I believe can help you in your financial need.

  1. Be faithful in your giving (tithing).  Nothing shows your belief in God and his power more than tithing your minimum of 10% of your gross income. (The bible says to be a cheerful and faithful giver, and God will bless you)
  2. Take care of your money. (The bible says if you can take care of little, then you can be trusted to care of much)
  3. Ask for what you want. Pray on it and look for ways God is trying to show you of opportunities to make more.
  4. Work hard/take action. Do not expect for the blessings to be dropped in your lap. God wants you to appreciate what he’s blessed you with by making sure you feel you’ve worked to earn it.

Since statistically speaking 80% of the people reading this most likely believe there is a God, then why fear trying these steps? These 4 things are Bible based and have proven to work time and time again. I suggest reading the book of Proverbs, reading and analyzing 1 chapter a day. You’ll get through it in a month and be amazed at the simple wisdom in it for everyday successful living.

Waiting at the airport in Phoenix for my flight home. Haven’t got a chance to do much of anything with regards to looking at financial matters, but noticed that Gold jumped to a jump since Friday. I did see news that oil prices have hit a new high and the dollar has dropped lower again which are usually reasons for Gold to take a jump.

So while here in Phoenix, I’ve been asking the locals (clients that I met) about the economy here and what they thought of the real estate market. Most said it’s a great time to move out here if I was looking to buy a house because foreclosures are rampant here like everywhere else and deals are easily found. Spoke to one long time local who told me of very interesting zoning laws out here regarding having office space that could double as a residential house. These properties are usually corner lots and must have adequate parking (I think he said 8 stalls) and must follow other specific rules that are pretty stringent but understandable. Those who live here love it, and don’t really feel the heat much. (I felt it!) I can’t imagine what it must be like in the middle of summer.

One other interesting thing. As I met with clients out here, I found a strong willingness for many people to give referrals for others who might like our services, even if they were competitors. Also, everyone seemed to know each other, like this was a small town of 200 people. With everyone so willing to share knowledge, it helps everyone move ahead and have a great outlook to their. I haven’t seen it anywhere else yet, but it should definitely be practiced by more industries.

Hopefully you’re getting a refund this year. I am dreading what kind of changes we’ll see with taxes when the next President we elect takes office. Our economy is still sliding hard and the world is rattling from the fallout. I can’t wait till we get into a good position to buy apartment buildings. That’s my plan…What’s yours? If you do not have a plan for the future its like not having a road map in a foreign land. You’ll be wandering endlessly hoping to reach your destination.

This week has been a very busy one for me. Getting ready to travel next week on business for 3 days has kept me from doing too much reading on all the news I normally like to keep up on. Next week will be tougher, but all is good.

My wife and I have been taking care of a dog that my wife named “Peanut”. She’s a lot of fun, but needs a home with a yard and a family that has more time for her. Any takers? Here is how she greets us everyday we come home!

Gas hits an all-time high here in California at $3.75 a gallon for regular unleaded, Gold predicted to hit $1100 by the end of the year, and our dollar is sinking once again.

I spoke to a women looking for some advice on her finances. She owns a nice place in France that she wants to fix and rent out. There is no mortgage on it, but the bathroom is unusable and she has no funds to fix it. I asked if she was willing to sell it now while the real estate market has not totally crashed yet, and she said she wants to keep it because it is so beautiful even though it’s unusable. I offered her a solution that would take some time, but help to secure her future.

  1. sell the France condo (she might get $200,000 for it), then do either #2 or #3 below
  2. take that money and find an apartment building to buy, use the $200k as a down-payment or closing cost OR
  3. take the money and buy a few condos at $25,000 to $30,000 a piece and pay it all in cash so there would be no mortgages. (believe it or not, there are a lot of these places in the midwest)
  4. She could also rent her house here and use the income to sustain herself in France as she fixes up the place. If the rent gives her enough income, she could sustain herself for a long time. (the weak dollar is a concern on running the actual number that she would have to consider)

Investing in real estate has its risks, I am well aware of that. I’ve made my mistakes and had my homeruns. The key is knowing who to get help from. Success is usually done when good team is put together. Spend the time to find good professional help, and your risk goes dramatically down, and success rate up. I think referrals work best in finding good team members, but so does asking a lot of questions to see how they answer. A combination of getting a referral and interviewing them is even better.

Don’t forget to educate yourself as much as possible. The more you know personally, the better you’ll be able to see “red flags” in a deal. The future is yours to make and mold, you can’t do it by praying God drops everything in your lap.

I love people who walk in so much confidence that they’re even willing to put their money where their mouth is. Here is an article where the author is willing to bet anyone $1000 that gold will have hit $1650 by 2011. He is asking people to look for those who write and disagree with his sentiment and to tell them of his wager. I only wish I had a way of knowing how many people take his bet.

I think gold will hit $1200 before the end of this year and $1500 by then end of 2009. My numbers may be more agressive than his, but I also think we could both be way off the mark and gold could be at $3000 by his due time. For me, I just think there are too many variables pushing Gold to skyrocket. Also, we haven’t seen the “mania” cycle yet where the masses go out and make silly purchases at the top of the market. The mania this time around could be outrageously ridiculous compared to the last time as baby boomers will scramble to protect their assets.

Today’s headlines are all about the unemployment report. Yesterday I mentioned that I felt it was a no brainer that the unemployment numbers would be increasing, but even I didn’t think it would hit as high as 80,000 new claims for March. I am afraid to think what next months numbers will be when the months starts with 5700+ employees losing their jobs to 2 airlines (Aloha Airlines and ATA Airlines)going bankrupt. More and more companies are looking to do mergers lately to protect themselves from total collapse, and this causes layoffs as well. How bad can this get? I guess we can only wait and see. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Build a financial foundation for yourself as soon as possible!

You were put on this earth with gifts to share with the world. You may not think you have a lot to offer others, but you are wrong. Yeah, this may sound a little harsh and your heart might start pumping a little faster now with anger, but know that I am telling you this for your own good. You have gifts, and if you are not sharing them with others, you are wasting your short time you have here on this planet. Think about anything you’ve ever taught someone that made them happy because they were able to now do it themselves. (Now if you’ve never taught anyone anything, you either do not remember doing it because it was effortless, or you don’t get out enough.) Have you ever been asked to train someone at work perhaps? Or if you have kids, have you ever shown them something that others could not?

With the internet today, your ability to share your gifts with the world can now be done with ease. What’s even better, your ability to make money sharing your gifts is also something that could help provide you with a little income. Duplicating yourself is the concept that the rich have mastered. Video tapes, books, ezines, etc are all ways that you can duplicate your knowledge, thereby duplicating yourself. With the internet, you can be in 1 million + homes teaching people stuff all at the same time. Embrace technology!

Today’s economy is getting rough, and it only looks to get rougher. Unemployment numbers today were bad, and the stock market is reacting to it today. Undoubtedly tomorrow holds more bad news as well, and I predict we’ll see a slight drop in the overall market. ATA and Aloha Airlines, 2 big airlines that service Hawaii, have both collapsed and another 5000 jobs are lost overnight. The trickle effect to other industries that survive on Hawaii tourism will be hit hard, which could also cause a lot of layoffs in the hotel sector, retail sector, manufacturing, and even restaurant industries.

Take the time to figure out what you can offer others and find ways to market your skills.

R.IS.E = Residual Income Solves Everything”(c)
Learn this concept and you’ll enter the world of financial security…

Good luck!

There is no doubt in my mind that Ben Bernanke is a very intelligent man and quick to make things happen. For a very long time I couldn’t figure out why he avoided saying that we are heading into a recession that can’t be stopped? I see today what is finally going on. He is starting to “hint” that we are going into a recession to cover his tracks about when he said he thought we were going to be fine, even when he knew better. My theory is that he needed to pump confidence into the market for as long as he could to prevent a massive disaster. Even Alan Greenspan, the former Fed Chairman, knew this was coming.

Recession is inevitable, but saying it now would be disastrous. American people need to believe the government can take care of them. They’ve been conditioned to believe the government has a handle on our economy and knows what it is doing.

The other thing today is Energy report. What a shock! (yes, it’s sarcasm) It basically pointed out gas prices may go up again. oh boy…

Prepare for a long summer. Stock up when things go on sale, because we are heading toward some big inflation trends.

If you know how to play it, this is a rally you good be making a killing in right now. Market news about banks getting into better shape have helped this jump. Is this really just an April Fool’s joke to get investors back in the market, or is it because people have been waiting for any excuse to recover their losses? If you had money in the S&P 9 years ago, you’d be right where you started today. Put in the cost of inflation, and you’ve lost a lot of worth, but also a bunch of time. Granted, dollar cost averaging would have done you “some” good, but was it enough?

Something to be expected today is that Gold and Silver is taking a dive along with other commodities. This is because money is running to an illusion of a safer stock market. Does anyone see the other news out today?

  • UBS writes off $19 BILLION
  • Home building tumbles for the 24th straight month
  • Deutsche Bank expects a $4BILLION subprime hit
  • Ford Sales sink – “The month was expected to be one of the worst for automakers since 2005 because of consumers’ worries about the economy”

Our Dollar raised against the Euro today with word of 2 leading European banks having more issues with the subprime mess. If you didn’t know this, the European real estate market beat the US real estate market during the boom. Their crash is prepping to be harder than ours. Gold and silver drop when the Dollar Gains over the Euro. The problem is that the Euro got weaker because of US banking issues.

What can I say. The gains in today’s market do not make sense to me. I have a bad feeling this bounce up will only create an accelerated fall in the next few weeks. Gold and Silver are starting to really form strong supports for themselves. One expert was hoping to see it drop this low again to $870 an ounce. He speculated that if this happened, a solid support could be created that will prevent Gold from ever going lower.

I was watching a “how to sell” video presented by a guy named Blair Singer, who is the author of a book called “Sales Dogs“. Not only is he a great salesman, but he’s also really good at teaching others to sell and getting over mental blocks. While watching the training video, there was something that really stuck with me.

After talking a little about doing everything you can for your customer and the importance of making sure you ask for the sale, Blair Singer goes on to say that you need to ASK for something in return, otherwise “You breed what I call criminal behavior and you’re actually conditioning people to get something for nothing.”

Mmmm, let’s think about it. He may have a point there. There are many parents that may disagree with me, but I still want to make a point that I do not believe that children should be given spending allowance just for existing, or for doing things they are supposed to do as a member of the household. How would I teach my kids to deal with being responsible for money? Glad you asked, here are my 5 suggestions:

  1. At the beginning of the week, give your kids all the money they need for the week for things they must spend money on to survive daily, like lunch money. Be clear what the money is for and that if they lose it, they will have to find their own way to get lunch. Show them the breakdown of what each penny is for,
  2. Tell them chores are a requirement for living in the household, not for payment of allowance. If they do not do their chores, they lose privileges or get grounded. What ever means you normally do for punishment. If extra chores are done that are above and beyond normal household necessities, then payment can be made and extra things get done.
  3. Require that all allowance be earned by extra chores only and that 10% be put toward saving and 10% to tithing. Make this a habit and you won’t regret it the earlier you start. These are habits that can be created that can save your children in the future.
  4. Have them learn what types of things you have to pay for and how you make your money. Explain the benefits to them of saving and tithing (or giving to charity).
  5. Lastly, and probably the most important, when you hear that they want something, sit them down and ask them how they can earn enough to get it. Let them think of ways they can create an income. You’ll be amazed at what they think of!

Remember, it takes effort to “earn” something. Don’t let your kids grow up with such a “something for nothing” mentality that they don’t end up doing anything for themselves. I see it around me everyday…Parents who give into their kids whining, when they should be disciplining them. There are lot of great kids out there, and one thing I noticed about those who are really good kids, they know if they do something wrong there will be consequences to pay from their parents… It’s how it should be.

I came across an article today that I found interesting. Take a look at it here.

http://www.ibtimes.com/articles/20080327/doug-casey-monumental-monetary-crisis-can-place_all.htm

I am a strong believer that Americans are being kept in the dark about a lot of issues. Does anyone really believe that everything can still be fixed without the public making some kind of sacrifice? Is there really a solution that can found to save us all from entering another Depression greater than the one we had in 1930?

Sacrificing now will avoid greater pain later. Not a monumental concept. It’s what PUDG stands for, Prosperity Using Delayed Gratification. It’s how life should be lived with regards to everything we want to be successful or prosperous at.

My mother once apologized to me that she was sorry she could not help my sister and I more financially while we were in college. With a sad tone in her voice, she explained how bad she felt that she had to make a decision to save for her retirement over helping me pay for my education. Honestly, when it comes to decisions she’s made with regards to her finances, I think it was the best decision she ever made. My sister and I have a lot of college debt, so what, at least we don’t have to worry about supporting my mother (like many families today who are supporting both their kids and parents today). I personally have over $25,000 in student loans and I am glad that my mother never helped me with my college expenses and decided to secure her financial future first. Working 60+ hours while going to school was one of the best life lessons I could have ever received about how tough life can be, but also how much I can personally accomplish on my own. My mother would not have been able to take an early retirement and enjoy her free time today with her grandkids had she spent her retirement helping me through college. She has some medical issues that made her work painful for her, and if she had to stay employed with all that pain, it would’ve deeply saddened me. My mother instinctively knew that she could potentially become a financial burden to her children if she didn’t position herself well for retirement. Perhaps it was because she was never handed anything and raised 3 children all by herself.

Two years ago I was heavy into educating people on financial matters and understanding money. While doing seminars, meeting with people privately, and even co-hosting a financial education radio show I focused a lot of my financial teachings on helping parents understand that college is a huge expense that must be planned for early together with their kids and that it should be secondary to their retirement planning. As a Certified College Planning Specialist (back in 2006) learning the in’s and out’s of how to position and educate parents for the high expenses of their children’s education, time after time I found that many parents were putting themselves in positions where they would be hurting their retirement years in order to get their kids through college, without knowing the potential consequences.

If you are a parent, there are things you need to realize:

  1. If you spend your retirement on your children’s education, you may end up needing them to support you in your retirement years. Think about what could happen if they had a spouse and kids and a portion of their income had to help you survive?
  2. If your child does not know what they want to major in, send them to a community college to get their core classes out of the way, or don’t send them at all till they are ready to. Let them have the “real world” education and emotionally support them in whatever they decide to do. Encourage them to learn about how investing works and making their money work for them, instead of them working for it.
  3. Something like 70% of college grads do not work in the field they got their degree in. Don’t expect too much $ value nowadays for a college degree if they are just getting one to get out into the real world without thought, because an “easy to get” bachelors degree doesn’t seem to hold much weight anymore, statistically speaking. I personally strongly believe that a college education is important  to help in growing up as a well rounded adult, but there is enough evidence to show that many times experience and good communication skills can out do a college education.
  4. Let your kids learn the value of money by making them learn to earn it. This means, force them to get jobs if they want spending money. Getting into the workforce early teaches great lifetime skills on how to relate with others. Hopefully they also learn other valuable lessons like taxes will rob you of most of your wages and working for others is not going to make them rich.
  5. I personally think that getting”let go”or “laid off” can sometimes be one of the best life lessons a young adult can experience. An experience like that can teach them early that they should never rely on anyone else to feed them, and when they recover, they will realize that it isn’t the end of the world. They need to learn to set things up that will secure their future.
  6. Lastly, your teen children will need to be told that they are expected to help with college expenses while still in high school by:
    1. Planning ahead and committing to doing well (starting from the 9th grade).
    2. Taking as many college courses while still in high school.
    3. Getting good grades and work hard to get scholarships.
    4. Saving to help with some of the expected college expenses outside of tuition, like books and supplies. (computers aren’t cheap, but a definite necessity today)
    5. Working while in high school. (I know this is controversial amongst parents depending on your upbringing, but I have personally have seen many benefits when high school students used to work for me.)

Bottom line…I feel the best way to let your kids experience being an adult is letting them support themselves. Especially through the college years.

All the tens of thousands of people buying houses at huge discounts today are smiling brighter than ever. I would be. Seeing that I can buy houses in my area for less than half the price they were a year or two ago would make me happy. Funny thing is, that the news is focusing on the fact that sales are up, and not mentioning a whole lot about the prices being so low. I seriously wonder why that is. I know they must realize that with prices being so low, buying now is a smart thing to do. Even if prices continue to drop even further, smart buyers know that they are getting places they can afford and are willing to settle in to when the market turns around. Plus, they are negotiating with sellers practically begging for a chance to be get in the game. This means, buyers have all the advantage and sellers have none if they want their house sold.

Are you ready to buy? Take some time and do some work in learning about real estate. There are thousands of books out there for you to read. If you are tight on money, don’t forget that books can be borrowed for free at the library. If you don’t like to read, do what I did and start with borrowing the smallest books first, then as your vocabulary grows, so will your reading speed. If money is not an issue and you don’t want to read, go purchase a couple of cd or tape courses and turn your car into a rolling university.

Bottom line…get prepared and get educated. The news is pointing to a dramatic opportunity for those who understand how to take advantage of this change in the real estate market. You’ve got a couple of years to get ready, don’t waste it!

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